I was been asked about providing some more information again which was on my blog in 2009. At that time I provided some details about Lingham Massage during my role as a Manchester Escort for clients. I have reissued this information again today for all you gentleman who enjoy information on this kind of massage and click the link title for more details on other interesting topics.
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Lingham Massage Details.
The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is lingham. It’s loosely translated as the "wand of light". Its meaning is different in intention from the typical western view of the penis. In tantra/sacred sexuality, the lingham is respectfully viewed and honoured, a "wand of light" that channels creative energy and pleasure.
The purpose of the lingham massage is to create a space for the receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his lingham. His partner experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side. The lingham massage can be used as a form of safer sex also, and is an excellent process to build trust and intimacy. It is often used to help men heal from negative sexual conditioning and trauma.
Orgasm is NOT the goal of the lingham massage, although it can be a welcome and pleasant side effect. The goal is to massage the lingham, also including the testicles, perineum, and the sacred spot (the equivalent of the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective, both receiver and giver relax into the massage.
Men need to learn how to RELAX AND RECEIVE. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal orientated mode. The lingham massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.
Take a relaxing bath or shower if possible beforehand. Take your time and breathe deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your mental process and will get you more into your feelings. Relax your belly and let go of the tension that most of us hold there. Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results occur when the bowels and bladder are empty. Let go of your thoughts and connect with the person doing the massage, make the session a place of relaxation and trust.
Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can look up at the masseur. Spread his legs apart with the knees slightly bent, and the genitals clearly exposed for the massage. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Gently massage the legs, the abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc, to get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation…
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