The first adventure for many couples is making love in a public place: The risk of getting caught adds an immediate edge. It's amazing how many men and women say variety is what keeps their sex life singing. "We've had sex in almost every place possible, including a washroom in a mall," brags one woman. "You have to work at keeping it fun. Once it becomes a chore, the fun and spontaneity are gone."
Exchanging sexual fantasies with your partner -- fantasies about with whom, with what, where and when you're making love -- can be a great way to spice up your sex play. Many couples like to act out their favorite scenarios or roles: One favorite is to go to a bar and pretend they are strangers. By faking this one element, they get the rush of novelty and add zing to their relationship.
The cardinal rule of adventure -- whether you're talking X-rated videos or spankings or a rest-room quickie -- is that both partners must be willing. You never know what your reaction to a new situation will be until you're in it -- and you don't know what his will be either. One woman showed up at her husband's office naked under her raincoat as a surprise, but when she opened her coat, his face froze in shock. This little adventure ended well because her husband was touched by her effort, but the lesson stands: Be prepared for anything.
The payoff of an escapade -- good, bad or unintentionally hilarious -- should be that it draws you two closer because you were in it together. Maybe you'll laugh. Maybe you'll recoil. Most likely you'll simply know each other even better than you did before.
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