Manchester Independent High Class Escort Lucinda

Manchester Independent High Class Escort Lucinda
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Thursday, 15 December 2011

Secret 4: Generosity More tips folks!

Heres some more info everyone!

I'm talking about a specific kind of generosity: giving and receiving oral sex. For all our sexual sophistication, this act still has the power to make us squirmy. People either want more of it or don't want it at all or want to receive but not give it or -- you get the picture.

Unlike intercourse, in which you're equal participants, oral sex is usually something one partner gives while the other receives. It's the giving part -- and the corresponding power to withhold -- that makes oral sex unique. It's sufficiently socially acceptable that people feel okay about asking for it -- as opposed to, say, anal sex. But oral sex is still considered enough of an extra that folks can't complain too loudly if their spouses won't partake very often. Since it's human nature to want what's hard to get, it's small surprise that this one little act can produce so many tiffs. "I'd like to get as much oral sex as I give him," says one woman. "He claims to enjoy giving it, but the lack of frequency says otherwise."

See why this is all about generosity? Yes, sexual tastes differ, but it's also true that oral sex is often used as something with which to negotiate, to manipulate, to punish, to reward. (C'mon, admit how stingy you can be when your husband shirks his domestic duties. A blow job, honey? We think not.) Why does withholding oral sex pack such a marital wallop? Because you can get away with it. If there is an imbalance in this area, the only way to redress it is for the giving partner (let's say you) to make the withholding partner (him) this offer: "You can decide to be generous, or I can decide to be selfish. What's it gonna be?"

Read more: Ways to Please a Man - Oral Sex - What Men Want - Redbook

Saturday, 10 December 2011

Secret 3: Adventure

You need to do something very, very bad and very, very bold occasionally just like I would do as a Manchester Escort, but I am not suggesting a change of job so...

The first adventure for many couples is making love in a public place: The risk of getting caught adds an immediate edge. It's amazing how many men and women say variety is what keeps their sex life singing. "We've had sex in almost every place possible, including a washroom in a mall," brags one woman. "You have to work at keeping it fun. Once it becomes a chore, the fun and spontaneity are gone."

Exchanging sexual fantasies with your partner -- fantasies about with whom, with what, where and when you're making love -- can be a great way to spice up your sex play. Many couples like to act out their favorite scenarios or roles: One favorite is to go to a bar and pretend they are strangers. By faking this one element, they get the rush of novelty and add zing to their relationship.

The cardinal rule of adventure -- whether you're talking X-rated videos or spankings or a rest-room quickie -- is that both partners must be willing. You never know what your reaction to a new situation will be until you're in it -- and you don't know what his will be either. One woman showed up at her husband's office naked under her raincoat as a surprise, but when she opened her coat, his face froze in shock. This little adventure ended well because her husband was touched by her effort, but the lesson stands: Be prepared for anything.

The payoff of an escapade -- good, bad or unintentionally hilarious -- should be that it draws you two closer because you were in it together. Maybe you'll laugh. Maybe you'll recoil. Most likely you'll simply know each other even better than you did before.

Keep checking my Manchester Escorts website out folk for more details about me.

Read more: Sexual Fantasy - Keep Things Interesting in Bed - Redbook and hope you like the info folks...
 
Luv Lucinda xxx

Friday, 25 November 2011

More sexy tips folks...

Here are some good tips for Husbands from your Manchester Escort Lucinda so hope you enjoy boys and girls!

The problem with being human is that we are creatures of habit. Once we find something we like, we return to it again and again until -- poof! We hate it. It's hard to stop doing what once worked, but stop we must, or all those moves -- kiss, kiss, rub, rub, suck, suck -- will suddenly make you cringe with their familiarity. A wife says..."My husband focuses on three things: right boob, left boob and crotch," one woman complains. "I try to let him know that it doesn't work because it's always the same."

The easiest way to get the synapses sparking to the thrill of novelty is to fiddle with the basic variables of time, place and style. Be forewarned, though: A certain amount of energy and effort -- not to mention humor -- is necessary if you're going to break out of a rut.

Ideally foreplay starts long before you hit the bedroom, so you build anticipation until you can't wait to make love. The trick is to keep sex in the air -- by flashing your man on the way to the shower or placing a sexy call at work or planting passionate kisses at unexpected moments. "I'd love it if my wife groped me during the day," says one husband, "just so I know she's thinking of me."

When was the last time you just let your fingers wander over each other's bodies? The danger of familiarity is that once you discover the prime hot spots, you stop exploring the erotic potential of other areas. "I wish my wife would learn some new techniques," says one man. "She just rushes right to my penis."

Everybody has a favorite sex position, but if variety weren't so crucial to maintaining desire, do you think the Kama Sutra would have lasted all these centuries? Having a range of positions not only is a perfect antidote to routine, it also lets you decide which style of lovemaking you're in the mood for -- tender, raunchy, spiritual -- and to adjust accordingly. You want your husband to do the "cave guy" thing and drag you around by your ponytail? Go for it. You want sweet, soulful lovemaking? It's yours. "Our goal," says one woman, "is never to have sex the same way twice!"

Read more: Spice Up Sex Life - Bring Variety to the Bedroom - Redbook

Saturday, 12 November 2011

10 Things Your Man Really Wants In Bed! - Number 1 for today

Not forgetting your lovely Manchester Escort Lucinda, lol!

Number 1 - Enthusiasm


Quick! When was the last time you initiated sex? You're asking, "Who cares who makes the first move?" He cares. Initiating is a clear way of proving your lust. If your husband is always the one to start things up, eventually he'll wonder, "Why doesn't she ever come after me? Doesn't she want me anymore?" Here's the thing, though: You may think that by unbuttoning your blouse one notch, putting on red lipstick and giving your husband a come-hither look, you're initiating sex, because you've signaled your interest. Dollars to doughnuts he'll say he initiated it, because he's the one who sidled over, slipped his hand under your blouse and kissed your red mouth. When guys say they wish their wives would initiate more, they really mean they wish their wives were more aggressive, more obvious, and more direct. Next question: When was the last time your husband came on to you and you rebuffed him with a kiss because dinner was cooking or the phone was ringing or -- whatever? I know about the mountain of chores and your endless to-do list. I also know that rare, wide-open moments for intimacy present themselves and we let them pass by -- in the name of efficiency, responsibility, practicality.

To be spontaneous is a form of surrendering, of saying that nothing matters at this moment but the two of you. Spontaneity tells your man you think he's worth putting everything aside for. As one nostalgic husband says, "When we were first together, the spontaneous 'nooner' would make me smile for days, and the unplanned encounter with my wife is still the best kind of sex."

Yet too often we block the urge. We feel interest stirring, and instead of letting it develop, we step in with the usual controls -- kids, work, laundry, sleep -- and postpone the flicker of arousal until a more convenient time. Convenient! Did you ever imagine you'd make convenience a condition for sex? Don't you miss the excitement of inconvenient sex, the just-between-us thrill of sex in unlikely places at unlikely times?

Sex is about so many things -- love, fun, eroticism, connection -- it's silly to let opportunities for intimacy pass by because they're not quite right. The value of sex is sometimes simply in the connection. And what your husband will read into your willingness to be spontaneous is that you want him under any conditions -- good, bad or indifferent.

More later this week....interesting reading!

Tuesday, 1 November 2011

Dont forget to read and see my website folks

Here is a link to my website you lovely people you and my Details page! It's a new page on my website so just wanted to let you see it for yourself.

This is interesting folks for couples - 55 Fantastic, Mind-Blowing Health Benefits of Sex

Hi Folk,

Sorry I have been a very naughty girl neglecting my Manchester Escorts blog, been busy working else were these days as escorting is not my life its just something I do on the side, lol!

Hope you are all well and feeling okay in what has been a pretty difficult year to say the least!

I thought this was really interesting and may cheer you up see what you think my lovely bloggers? I see couples on occasion and its great fun and I always try to give good tips, where possible so here we go!

Sex is oh so good for your health. Getting it on is about more than pleasure. Good sexual health can improve your physical health. It certainly puts you in a positive frame of mind. Conserve electricity, turn off the lights and light a candle. Save water, share a shower and soap each other. Go green between the sheets. OK who needs sheets or a even a bed for that matter, but sex is eco-friendly.

Here are 55 fantastic health benefits and legitimate reasons to be having lots of sex.

Treat your partner as if you’re dating is a life hack strategy for keeping the spark alive. As romantic as a fairytale castle is, it’s unrealistic for most of us to plan a “date night” there. When dating, couples are generally more sexually adventuresome than after a couple has been together or married for a long time.

Stress is a killer for both sexes. The health benefits of having sex to relieve stress and to ease depression have been proven. For men, their release calms them and sends happy chemicals to their brain. For women, absorbing semen (for couples not escorts well not me anyway!) works as a natural antidepressant and helps get rid of stress. So plan that romantic night out together in nature or light the candles for a special date dinner. Depressed and highly stressed individuals tend to have less sex. It’s a trap! Don’t fall into it.

Romance your spouse outside the bedroom is a strategy for keeping the spark alive. Most of us can not take our beloved to a deserted island for a romantic getaway, but that is not required to gain this benefit of sex: relieving pain. The best painkiller ever created is the mighty O. No, not Oxytocin but Orgasm. It releases natural chemicals like endorphins in the body, both before and during climax. These endorphins have a similar chemical structure to morphine. Water is used in many therapies, so why not add the glorious and sensual feel of water to your sex life? It’s a win/win/win situation without needing to find the time, finances, and location of the closest deserted island. Having sex, win. Having sex in the water, double win. Having orgasmic sex in the water? Oh baby!

Credit cards due? Bills piling up? Money trouble causes most couples to fight. Before it gets really ugly and you turn on each other, have sex. Having sex helps you forget your troubles. It also improves intimacy, lifts your mood, and increases your imagination. Regular humping can keep you happy. It might not cure your money problems, but keeping busy with the horizontal hustle was proven to provide the same levels of happiness as a couple earning an extra £80,000 annually.

Get busy getting frisky since the big Outdoors is the all-natural medicine cabinet. If you have a headache, then bonk your way to temporary headache relief. Forget paracetamol, having a headache is an excuse to have sex right away to cure you. It’s practically the cure for the common cold. Having sex stimulates those wonderful pleasure endorphins as well as antibodies to protect you from getting the flu or a cold. Once-a-week sex produces 30% higher levels of immunoglobulin A, boosting the immune system and fighting off disease.

Sex can relieve a stuffy nose; it’s is a natural antihistamine. It can even help combat hay fever and asthma. After frolicking under the sheets, your hormone prolactin surges and fires new neurons in the brain’s olfactory bulb. This means after doing the horizontal hustle, you have a heightened sense of smell. In fact, after sex all your sensitivities are heightened, including activating your taste buds.

Next strategy to keep the spark hot is: Exercise, preferably together. Rambunctious rolling in the hay can burn off as much as 700 calories while less vigorous love making burns at least 200 calories. It’s surely the best way to control or lose weight? It’s definitely the best way to burn calories.

Ladies, your passion can protect his heart. Shag your guy’s ticker into shape. Sex lowers blood pressure, boosting cardio health, and reduces his risk of heart attack. Lovemaking improves strength, flexibility, and muscle tone. It might even protect against strokes.

There's lots more to read on this article so enjoy folk, Love Lucinda. http://webecoist.com/2010/02/11/55-fantastic-mind-blowing-health-benefits-of-sex-nsfw/

Tuesday, 7 June 2011

Why did I become an escort?...

Something happened to me before I started working as a Manchester Escort and I feel that it was a very sad and unreal time in my life. Lets face it we all have difficult times in our lives, life isn't easy. My thoughts were, "how could this happen to me, to my family", but no one is immune from bad times. I also thought, "what the hell am I going to do about it"? In other words change it girl and make something happen do something and fast, so I did!

I think lots of women who choose this profession come into it because of difficult circumstances. I had a great career in business and well qualified, but within minutes my family was radicalised and this changes me forever!

At the time I felt that I was in a Diane Arbus photograph and that life was surreal or stuck in the picture 'Scream'. My memories of that time are still in black and white and of sadness and fear, but I've learned a lot since then and I've moved on.

Here is my little personal expression of my fears at the time. I think this explains it...

It’s four in the morning when most are asleep there’s a little dark room in my house where I creep, it measures 6ft by 6ft and it’s cold with black tiles and I know I can hide in this room for a while. The lock on the door is secure this I know, the light through the window it is grey don’t you know. There’s a sink and a loo and a corner or two to sit and reflex on what, where and who. You can close the lock quietly and no one will hear, you can cry really loudly and let go of your fear? You can sit on the floor in the corner quite tight, with legs pulled up high to above your chest height.

Heartbreak and hopelessness are all your best friends, in the dark they engorge you and life’s at an end, but you can hide in this room, let it go, let it out, find relief and some solace while no ones about! You sit in the dark hoping no one is near yet crying and screaming for some God to hear.

The tears start to end and the pain starts to go, the helplessness, hopelessness ends don’t you know. Eventually dawn’s grey light peeps through, you’re feeling much better refreshed and anew. You wipe away tears, the exhaustion is here, to unlock the door to the darkness once more to the loved ones so dear, in the hope and to pray that Morpheus will hear.

Or something like that so hope you like it?

No I was not on the loo! ;-) I wanted somewhere to hide! I just wanted to cry where no one would hear me because I didn't know where to turn or what to do.

I came into escorting to change this situation for the better and I am so proud I did for many reasons.


So what would you do for your loved ones? It's a difficult one hey, but it's not for me because I would do anything for the people I love...

Kisses and love Lucinda XXX

Tuesday, 1 March 2011

Max Mosleys Interview on Radio 4

As one of Manchester Escorts I was listening to Max Mosleys interview on Radio 4's ‘On the Ropes’ this morning. I found it extremely interesting in respect to his opinions his family, his life, sex, sado-masochistic, escorting, prostitution and his relationship with the dominatrixses concerned. His views were enlightening and so was the discussion.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/console/b00yyflw/On_the_Ropes_Max_Mosley

and the counter argument of Daniel Johnson of Standpoint Magazine.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/today/hi/today/newsid_9357000/9357333.stm

See what you think girls and boys!

Luv Lucinda XXX

Thursday, 10 February 2011

Discovering New Songs from an Old Mistress!

Hi Everyone,

Sorry I have not been on my blog lately I have been busy with one thing and another since Christmas, family stuff and DIY and updating my Manchester Escorts website and also I have been covered in gloss and sticky wallpaper paste.

I found an old friends music on TV this morning, watching a ballet called 'Fiddle and the Drum', the ballet was a collaboration between the National Ballet of Canada and set to the music of and renowned singer and songwriter Joni Mitchell. The ballet was quite wonderful to watch and being introduced to this lady's music again was fantastic! I was mesmerised and was very different from the norm.

An old friend introduced me to Joni Mitchell's music some years ago and I feel in love with her and her music instantly, but for some people Joni Mitchell is an acquired taste depending on your age and what type of music you like, but I think this is worth a listen to and see what you think!

Just click Joni's picture.

Back soon folks,

Love always,

Lucinda.

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