Favorite Music List!
Bluegrass, Motown, 60's and 70's Soul, West Coast harmonies, Swing Jazz, MGM movie musicals, country, folk songs, 78's, hymns. Judy Garland, Cass Elliot, Laura Nyro, Aretha Franklin, Bill Withers, Judee Sill, Dionne Warwick, The Carpenters, Nina Simone, Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Dusty Springfield, Gil Scott Heron, Etta James, Miles Davis, Bacharach and David, Tim Hardin, Patti Labelle, Linda Rondstadt, Mindy Smith, Janis Joplin, Jimmy Webb, Bobbie Gentry, Leonard Cohen, Richie Havens, Marvin Gaye, Patsy Cline, Kate Bush, Lowell George, Yusuf/Cat Stevens, William DeVaughn, Issac Hayes, Yip Harburg, Dolly Parton, Ennio Morricone, Barbra Streisand, Roberta Flack, Townes Van Zandt, Judy Collins, Cat Power, Van Morisson, Stacey Earle, Herbie Hancock, Candi Staton, Johnny Cash, Sister Sledge, Nick Drake, Pat Metheney, Diana Ross, Puccini, Tata Vega, Sam Cooke, Maria Mckee, Emmy Lou Harris, Smokey Robinson, Terry Reid,The Fifth Dimension, Jackson Browne, Morrissey, Stevie Wonder,JJ Cale, Gordon Lightfoot, Maria Callas, Beth Neilson Chapman, Donovan, Freddie Mercury, Ella Fitzgerald, Alicia Keys, Jackie DeShannon, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Lesley Duncan, Tony Hatch and Jackie Trent, Sade Adu, Bonnie Raitt ,George and Ira Gershwin, Dinah Washington, Harold Arlen, Michael Jackson, Percy Mayfield, Patty Larkin, Piero Picconi, Jerome Kern, Perry Como, Stephen Bishop, Edith Piaf, Fred Astaire, Carly Simon, Denny Docherty, Oscar Hammerstein, Hoyt Axton, Simon and Garfunkel, John Martyn, Rachmaninov, Tim Buckley, Steven Sondheim,Leonard Cohen, CSNY, Lesley Duncan, John Phillips,Cilla Black, Peggy Lee, Sarah Vaughan, Ella Fitzgerald, Harry Nilsson, early Dylan.
The month of May so far - what with swine flu the recession the labour party and the rain today and not forgetting Bob Dylan rewrote the record books yesterday to become the oldest musician to have a No 1 album, nearly 40 years after he last topped the charts, that's my Mum upset now and feeling older! Madonna adopting another baby and the childs parent still wanting the baby!
It's not looking good in the news so far this year, but I am sure like everything in life it does not last for ever, Madonna headlines (apart from Bob and my Mum getting older that is) that won't change! We are all aging but great news for Bob hey! I like some of his music thanks to my Mum. ife’s not easy sometime you just have to have a positive mental attitude it keeps you young and you need to keep things in perspective. I have been away for a few days this month, but looking forward to the summer and seeing all my favourite friends, you know who you are? I might be coming to Scotland this month, but not sure folks I will keep you posted on my calendar page!
I have still got "A head for business and a bod for sin"!
So I hope to speak with you soon and hope the month of May is going to be hot, that will please us all!
Love Lucinda XXX
Just got back from a short trip to Edinburgh and had a great time! I have also just been to see the Ten Drawings by Leonardo da Vinci from the Royal Collection and its on from Saturday 14 February 2009 - Monday 4 May 2009 Manchester Art Gallery FREE!
This exhibition celebrates the 60th birthday of HRH The Prince of Wales. It's a rare chance to see ten of the Royal Collection's finest drawings by the Renaissance master Leonardo da Vinci (1452 - 1519).
I loved it and why not have a look yourself if you can while your in Manchester, seeing drawing of such a wonderful historical genius so close you could touch them makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up so if you like to visit the Gallery, I would recommend it to everyone! Hope you got through April 1st everyone with not too may pranks!
At last the bad weather is leaving, well I hope it is.
January and February are quite depressing months for everyone and especially after Christmas and New Year, but the daffodils are rising, which always makes me smile.
Hope you all had a nice Valentines Day? I know I did! Stayed at home with a good book and also watch TV, with a nice glass of champagne, lovely, lying on my fabulous large bed and TV in my bedroom at home, us girls love our bedrooms, well us humans all do a lot of nice things there, generally! We make love there, sleep, conceive and give birth, not all of us I know, but you get my point I hope? We also rest and relax there, have deep thought there and bad thoughts, read, etc, LOL. It's a great place to be and pretty important to us all, don't you think?
I visited Paris one Valentines Day and went to the DOUBLE MURANO Murano, Paris!
Here are some details about the hotel!
While Paris remains a city for lovers, most of its hotels cling to a concept of "romantic" and "sexy" that translates as "Louis XV’s favourite brothel". Not so the Murano, in the Marais, a far more contemporary interpretation of what might tickle a couple’s erogenous zones. Unlike some other lounge-lizardy hotels (hello, Costes), the bon-chic vibe doesn’t evaporate as soon as you leave the public areas, the Murano’s rooms being as fun and far-out as the retro-futurist lobby and bar.
Here is their website!
Here's one of my favourite poems and it works for you ladies too! It has helped me in my life, put things in perspective and I hope you know it and enjoy reading it again and if you don't know this poem then I hope you too will value it's meaning.
IF by Rugard Kipling
IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
Boy the weathers depressing but one has to keep positive as nothing lasts, hope your are all keeping warm and free from cold, it will soon be spring and Valentines day! Two Girl apointments - just give me a call and I am sure I can find one of my lovely lady friends to join us! So if you phone for a two girl appointment be sure to ask and your 2 girls fantasies will be for filled!
Incalls - are calls at my apartment!
My luxurious apartment provides a wonderful retreat, whether you're looking to fulfil your dreams and pleasures, spend time with a beautiful women and person or have fun whilst being able to take it easy and unwind from your hectic life or day! I am very discreet and so is my apartment, with secure parking, it is an ideal location for a fabulous time together. With refreshments and shower, together or on your own, the apartment has everything you need! I have all the luxuries you could ever wish for too to make our time together just fabulous and one you will never forget!
My Outcalls are to your hotel or home just give me a call anytime to discuss and I do travel throughout the UK with the correct information supplied and deposit especially travelling to London, as I do from time to time and abroad to Europe.
Dinner dates and overnights - what fun!
I love seeing clients for a romantic dinner date and over night some of my clients have taken me to some wonderful hotels and restaurants, especially in the UK and Italy, one of my favourite places to visit. Food, wine and fun!
One of my favourite in Italy is the VILLA FELTRINELLI - on Lake Garda http://www.villafeltrinelli.com/home/030416.html - two days here is superb, better than any holiday for a week or 2, this is just heaven to visit and with a friend its even more superb!
In the UK however, things are improving, food wise and with some hotels also! It’s great that British food throughout the world is now being seen as improving dramatically, including some hotel services and restaurants, especially http://www.fatduck.co.uk/ a meal there is a once in a lifetime experience!
One of my favourite sexy male chefs is Rick Stein, he’s so shy and to me so sexy http://www.rickstein.com/ but then any man who can cook does it for me I’m pleased to say! I sit occasionally watching chef programmes wishing and hoping, in more ways than one ;-) Some men are so good at cooking so what does that say about other talents I ask myself!
Gordon Ramsey is not bad http://www.gordonramsay.com/ukrestaurants/ bit too much swearing, but hey in the right place and time!
One of my favourite jobs as an escort is seeing women who are trying to experience their bi-side and last night was no exception, it was just fantastic, my lady client was just beautiful and so naughty, while ones husband is away the girl's will play. Her husband had gone away on business to Dubai and she never experiencing a woman before decided, now at the age of 40, to give a high class girl like me a treat and boy what a treat!
On arrival to her home I was a little excited to say the least dressed immaculately and professionally in my black business suit with pencil skirt I knocked on her door and when she opened the front door I was very pleased indeed! Wow, what a woman!
On entering the living room she offered me a drink of wine and then grabbed my hand and led me upstairs and she was so keen to take me to her bedroom, this just took my breath away. On entered the bedroom and I explained I like to set the mood and play some sexy music on my MP3 player.
I lay out my toys, candles, oils and fresh raspberries, "raspberries" you cry! Well I will leave to your imaginations as to where I placed these lovely soft fruits during our time together and where they fit perfectly, after all if a lady books me in advance (or gentleman for that matter) I can prepare my outcall bag to perfection for the occasion.
I eventually was able to light the scented candles after about five minutes of passionate kissing as I always bring candles for atmosphere and I know all you ladies love atmosphere and candlelight and of course massage oils. A full body massage is always helpful to set the senses when dealing with the fairer sex, especially in the most sensual places such as the breast and inner thigh, inner arms and back of her knees! One has to please ladies slowly and tenderly, well that's what I like too.
At times she could not stand the pleasures of my fingertips and the flicking of my tongue while slightly pinching her sensitive nipples between my fingers. I find this always helps intensify the pleasure.
My lovely lady was not shy at coming forward in her pursuit of her bi-sexual side; in fact she was a pure natural and constantly proving great eagerness to please me too.
Keep reading boys and girls more soon…
Couples are one of my favourite jobs as an escort two lovely people for the price of one! I met a couple not long ago and they were fantastic in fact all the couples I have seen have been just fantastic! I never discriminate regarding age, size or looks. I usually see couples in hotels and yes, the lady usually takes the
lead and is always willing.
As you have to always talk to the lady before you meet and it usually her idea. I always take my goody bag, as you never know what they are going to pick in my toy range. I always have to put the lady first in these situations because after all a lot of men love seeing girls together and when the ladies are happy ever one is happy. Tie and tease and blindfolding seems to be a favourite for some couple but not too tight even for the men and in my experience the men seem to like this more.
So any couples out there who have thought about it just pick up the phone you never now you might have a great time.
My Edinburgh tour was really great fun and the city as per usual is beautiful, although cold this time of year but my lovely Scotsmen made up for the cold weather in more ways than one, you know who you are!
My new sexy underwear went down a treat and not forgetting my new toys, my new cock ring went down a treat for one very special client and I cannot wait to be asked to use it again!
Another first was my new sensitising cream, which worked beyond my wildest expectations, you have got to try this boys!
I would highly recommend Skippers restaurant, the seafood is to die for and another restaurant The Witchery on the High Street, is a gastronomic experience to be enjoyed!
I will be up in Edinburgh again in December so keep an eye on my calendar.
The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is lingham. It’s loosely translated as the "wand of light". Its meaning is different in intention from the typical western view of the penis. In tantra/sacred sexuality, the lingham is respectfully viewed and honoured, a "wand of light" that channels creative energy and pleasure.
The purpose of the lingham massage is to create a space for the receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his lingham. His partner experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side. The lingham massage can be used as a form of safer sex also, and is an excellent process to build trust and intimacy. It is often used to help men heal from negative sexual conditioning and trauma.
Orgasm is NOT the goal of the lingham massage, although it can be a welcome and pleasant side effect. The goal is to massage the lingham, also including the testicles, perineum, and the sacred spot (the equivalent of the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective, both receiver and giver relax into the massage.
Men need to learn how to RELAX AND RECEIVE. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal orientated mode. The lingham massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.
Take a relaxing bath or shower if possible beforehand. Take your time and breathe deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your mental process and will get you more into your feelings. Relax your belly and let go of the tension that most of us hold there. Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results occur when the bowels and bladder are empty. Let go of your thoughts and connect with the person doing the massage, make the session a place of relaxation and trust.
Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can look up at the masseur. Spread his legs apart with the knees slightly bent, and the genitals clearly exposed for the massage. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Gently massage the legs, the abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc, to get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation…
Sounds interesting don’t you think?
Hope you are all having a great 2008!
Sincere apologies for not doing my blog this year, "She's a naughty girl". You say, well correct, but shall we say neglectful only with the written word so apologies again everyone!
Today I thought I would discuss older men and a little about my trip with an older client last year and really my feelings towards the older gentleman in my life! Boy O' Boy!
My experience of older men is just wonderful to be honest. I am not saying that younger men have anything wrong with them, but I do find that men just get better and better with age and behave just as naughtily as young men and still have the same energy!
I always thought when I started this interesting career that my role would involve more younger men. How wrong was I and I'm please to say that most of the gentleman I see, seem to prefer a more experienced woman over 30… I seem to have such wonderful times with older men.
I spent a great weekend at this great hotel, SorrentoItalyhttp://www.slh.com/italy/sorrento/llaita.html just outside Naples with a true gentleman, who shall remain nameless, and lets just say they really need stronger beds in that wonderful hotel. What a time we had! The older man is one of my favourite delicacies, but I will leave the details to your imagination…
Well, what senses five senses for?
“From the day we are conceived until the day we die, we have amazing sensory organs working for us. They allow us to enjoy wonderful foods, hear remarkable sounds, and see the beauty of life around us, feel our environment and smell enticing scents that change our attitude. Our senses also alert us to strange situations. Our senses do not only offer the gift of pleasure, but protect us as well.
Each of these five senses all work together to make a picture of our surroundings - and help us decide what to do next. They can alert us not to take a bite of that terrible dish sitting on our dinner plate, or make us want to jump in the cool, blue, pristine waters before our eyes.
It can be easy to take them for granted in most situations since we have become so used to having them around but, take one away and we have to learn how to get by in the world without them. Not an easy task when you are used to relying on your senses to do the work for you.
So, rather than acting blasé about our sensory organs - we should pay attention to the wonderment of each sense. They really do their job, and without them we would be like Picasso without a canvas, Pavarotti without a voice or Emeril without a stove.”
Life would be very dull without them don't you think!
The five senses and sex.
Just as our five senses help create our mood in every day life, they also play a key role in our intimate relationships. While everyone has a different “turn on” rigger, all of us use one or more of our sensory organs to reach the point of desire.
Sight. Does the sight of your man’s shoulders make you shudder with joy? Men, if you see your wife or girlfriend or friend in cut off shorts while she bends over or moving to and fro cleaning the house, do you get a tantalising feeling in the pit of your stomach? Probably so. From the time you meet a person, you are utilising your sight to figure out if you are attracted to him/her. As said before, we all have different opinions about what is attractive or not, as well as different body parts that we enjoy. Both women and men love looking at the eyes, mouth, chest, shoulders, derrières and legs of those who catch their eyes. Other attractive qualities include smiles, the way a person’s hair falls in his/her face, the curves of each person’s body and the symmetry of their face. Whatever sight you enjoy most from the opposite (or same) sex, is your prerogative, but when picking a mate, physical features do matter.
Sound. The giggling of a woman, the deep, whiskey voice of a man, the humming of a housewife - all of these sounds can make a heart race and a body wants to experience more. Sound is a very important sense, especially when dealing with intimacy. Men and women have their own sounds - whispering sweet nothings, talking uthoritatively, laughing with pleasure, moaning - and those sounds are a cue for the other person to know that they are providing pleasure (or not). Knowing this causes the pleasure provider to also receive pleasure - a win-win situation for both parties involved.
Smell. The scent of good cologne can go a long way. Or, that perfume she wore when you first started dating can rev the engine a little faster. Some even like the smell of a man or woman who has been working outside all day - musky and sweat-drenched. The smell of another human can be intoxicating, and God intended for us to enjoy the scent of one another - women’s pheromones are actually a cue for procreation. We have different smells on different days, depending on what we are doing and, for women, where we are in our cycle. This alone can be enough to crave intimacy; but pair it with sight, sound, touch and/or taste, and there may be a quick departure to the bedroom.
Touch. Touch is one of the most exciting senses we have. Feeling the softness of one’s skin, touching the firmness of shoulder blades or a back, feeling the curvy, solid area of a hip bone - all a mesmerising motion one can’t get enough of. And to be touched - our skin has thousands of nerve endings that beg to be touched, tickled and massaged. While our hands do most of the touching, other body parts can take their place too. Our bodies have several erogenous zones that savour every swipe of a finger, kiss of a mouth or tickle from the hair on your lover’s head. Touch allows you to give and receive pleasure all at once.
Taste. We all have different tastes, literally and figuratively. But, we aren’t talking about clothes or home décor - we are talking about sweet, salt, bitter and sour (the fifth recognised taste, umami, is primarily the taste of different amino acids, which is not present when regarding taste in a sexual manner). Our ability to taste allows us to protect ourselves from poison, as well as delight in delicacies put before us. Taste also relies on smell - without smell, taste just isn’t the same (try holding your nose and telling the different taste between various foods and beverages - not the same, is it?). And just as we all have different smells at different times, our body also tastes different depending on the time of day, our activities and its unique chemical make up. Running your tongue down the neck of your lover may taste salty-sweet, while doing the same thing in the inner thigh may produce a completely different taste. It’s all about your lover’s body, and your tastebuds - something to relish in time and time again.
Hence food and all the senses do it for me, including beautiful atmosphere, playful pleasures and a wonderful male or female (or 2 girl evening with a friend and fun) dinner partners (or party) and our overnights together are even better!